What did you realize today?

 recently got married to a very humble and warm girl. 

It was an arranged marriage not just between me and my wife but our families as well. The first few meetings are always very nice since you will never realize anything about the person.

Of course you do not need to become a spy to find out everything coz that would just slowly break things than make. I recently realized that in marriage, when people tell you 

 ‘You both are made for each other’ it should have a deeper meaning which me and my wife treat as compatibility.

What is compatibility according to us?

My wife speaks very less yet communicates effectively through few words. While I talk a lot. Initially

 when we were engaged, I used to find this unusual and think that probably we are not compatible. 

I am sure she must be thinking the same. I am a workaholic and very practical person. Without worrying about results

 I work on tasks and try to complete them. My wife works hard but she has her very limited capacity. Initially I used to think that my partner should be workaholic to get along. I love non-vegetarian food while she likes her vegetarian food.

One day, before our wedding we went out for dinner and asked her What did you see in me? Most of the things we do or habits we have do not match yet we are betting on each other” She answered 

We both have patience for each other and that is what is going to carve our future better. Looks and money might come and go but patience should always be there

 I was very astonished yet impressed.

 I said to myself that ‘Yes true we both have a nice habit to handle everything calmly and with patience. I think more than enough for us to be together’

On this thought we gave it few months and now it is going very well.

I recently realized that the more you overthink about a problem that actually is not a problem, but more of a change which you want to control, the more it will haunt you.

 I also realized that how important it is to spend energy on important things in life and leave anything that is energy vampire.

We often want to see our mirror image in the people we are around and so we overthink, push irrelevant advises and start expecting. If these expectations are not met we start creating a negative image in our mind. 

So stop expecting and deliver everything straight from your house 🏠🏡🏡🏡🏡🏡warm girl. It was an arranged marriage not just between me and my wife but our families as well. The first few meetings are always very nice since you will never realize anything about the person. Of course you do not need to become a spy to find out everything coz that would just slowly break things than make. I recently realized that in marriage, when people tell you ‘You both are made for each other’ it should have a deeper meaning which me and my wife treat as compatibility. What is compatibility according to us? My wife speaks very less yet communicates effectively through few words. While I talk a lot. Initially when we were engaged, I used to find this unusual and think that probably we are not compatible. I am sure she must be thinking the same. I am a workaholic and very practical person. Without worrying about results I work on tasks and try to complete them. My wife works hard but she has her very limited capacity. Initially I used to think that my partner should be workaholic to get along. I love non-vegetarian food while she likes her vegetarian food. One day, before our wedding we went out for dinner and asked her What did you see in me? Most of the things we do or habits we have do not match yet we are betting on each other” She answered We both have patience for each other and that is what is going to carve our future better. Looks and money might come and go but patience should always be there I was very astonished yet impressed. I said to myself that ‘Yes true we both have a nice habit to handle everything calmly and with patience. I think more than enough for us to be together’ On this thought we gave it few months and now it is going very well. I recently realized that the more you overthink about a problem that actually is not a problem, but more of a change which you want to control, the more it will haunt you. I also realized that how important it is to spend energy on important things in life and leave anything that is energy vampire. We often want to see our mirror image in the people we are around and so we overthink, push irrelevant advises and start expecting. If these expectations are not met we start creating a negative image in our mind. So stop expecting and deliver everything straight from your house 🏠🏡🏡🏡🏡🏡

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